| “ | You know...I may not be as intellectual as your ex-husband, but I do know my boundries. I can't go through that kind of pain again. I'm not sure if I could get up. My girls need me. You're not ready for the kind of intimacy I'm looking for. | ” |
| — Jakob to Jean[src] |
Jakob Nyman is a main character in Sex Education. He is portrayed by Mikael Persbrandt. He is the father of Ola Nyman and her older sister, and the ex-boyfriend of Jean Milburn.
He is a widowed Swedish handyman who develops a relationship with Jean after working for her.
Early Life[]
Jakob was born in Sweden to Thor Nyman and his unnamed mother.[2] Jakob's former wife, whom he had two daughters with, died of cancer. In Season 3, during therapy, Jakob revealed that him and his deceased wife had married very young and that he found out she had had an affair and was planning on leaving him. However, her cancer diagnosis came and she stayed with him because he refused to abandon her because she was dying.
Throughout the Series[]
Season 1[]
Jakob is Jean Milburn's handyman and the one who was fixing her sink and other stuff in her house. With time they fell in love with each other, they end up having sex in Episode 7.
In Episode 8, Jean tells Jakob that they can't see each other anymore, due to Otis and Ola's relationship. The whole talk ends up with them having a passionate kiss.
Season 2[]
In the beginning of the season, Jakob and Jean keep their relationship as a secret in front of Otis and Ola, who are dating as well. Unfortunately, their secret doesn't last long, as in Episode 2.1, Otis and Ola find out about them being a couple.
Later, with being official, Jakob spends so much time in the Milburn house, which slowly starts to annoy Jean, who's starting to realize that she's become too independent for a relationship. In Episode 2.5, Jean and Jakob break up after Jean tells Jakob she kissed Remi, her ex-husband.
In Episode 2.7, Jean comes to the house Jakob's doing his job in, wanting to get back to him. Jakob turns her down, saying that she's not ready for the kind of intimacy he's looking for, and after that, Jean leaves.
In the end of the season, it's revealed that Jean's pregnant with Jakob's baby.
Season 3[]
In Season 3, Jean is pregnant with Jakob's baby and is struggling to tell him. Eventually, she does and they decide to live together to raise the new baby, along with their kids Ola and Otis. However, they realize they have very different approaches to life. Due to deep-seated trust issues, Jakob eventually expresses doubt whether the baby is even his and asks for a paternity test.
However, Jean goes into labor 8 weeks early and suffers a hemorrhage. Jakob spends the whole time in the hospital, as well as rest of the family, being afraid of losing her.
Relationships[]
Romances[]
Jean Milburn (ex-girlfriend)[]
- Main article: Jean and Jakob
Jean was Jakob's client and girlfriend. They first met when Jean hired Jakob to fix her kitchen sink. They later developed a romantic relationship, much to the dismay of their children, who were dating.
The two broke up when Jean revealed that she had kissed her ex-husband, Remi. After Jean revealed that she was pregnant with Jakob's child, they rekindled their relationship. Jakob and his daughter, Ola, moved into the Milburn House. After Jakob found out Jean used to sleep with younger men he started doubting if he was even the father of Jean's baby. Despite this, when Jean went into labor, Jakob was beside her and was supporting her. Shortly after that, the paternity test results were in, confirming that Jakob was not the biological father of Joy. This caused Jakob to leave Jean.
Family[]
His late wife[]
Jakob and his late wife met young and then had two daughters. Then, she met someone else and wanted to leave Jakob, and if she didn't get sick she would probably do it. When she was sick, Jakob and their daughters took care of her, but some time later, she passed away, which made Jakob depressed. Due to that, he wasn't ready to be in a relationship with someone else for a very long time until he met Jean, for whom he developed feelings.
His older daughter[]
Jakob has a good relationship with his older daughter. She used to drive him to work when he temporarily lost his licence.
Ola Nyman (daughter)[]
Ola is one of Jakob's daughters. When Ola's mother/Jakob's wife passed away, Jakob got depressed, and both Ola and her sister were taking care of him, worrying about him. With time, Jakob finally got over it and returned to work. Hence, Ola and her sister frequently drove him to his clients' homes due to him losing his license. Ola was also happy for her father when he started dating Jean, as he hadn't been so happy for a very long time.
After Jean and Jakob broke up, Ola was upset at Jean, as she broke her father's heart, making him depressed once again. She was also mad when she found out that Jean's pregnant and her father got back together with her. Then, she warned Jean that she wouldn't let her hurt her father one more time. In the Season 3 finale, Ola revealed to Jakob that she felt like she reminded him of pain and losing the most important person in his life, but to her surprise, Jakob told her that she reminded him only of joy. The two shared a hug.
Otis Milburn (son figure)[]
Otis was indifferent to Jakob until he and Ola moved into the Milburn house, due to Jean's pregnancy. Since then, Otis started to perceive him as some kind of paternal figure, as Jakob often advised him and cheered him up. Jakob was also the one who helped Otis with understanding some life principles. In the Season 3 finale, when Jean's fate was still unknown, Otis asked Jakob if he could become his guardian in the case that his mother died. Then, Jakob told him that he would always be there for him.
Friends[]
Maureen Groff (friend)[]
Maureen is Jakob's friend. The two met via Jean, who was Jakob's girlfriend and is friends with Maureen. After Jean went into labor, Maureen, out of Jakob's ask, came to the Milburn house and packed some of the most important things for Jean and took them to the hospital. After Maureen arrived to the hospital, Jakob thanked her and Maureen told him to let her know if there was something more she could do for them. The two shared a hug.
Personality[]
He admitted to Jean she is the first person he had sex with and feelings for since his wife's death.
Appearances[]
| Episodes | ||||||||||
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Season | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | Total | |
| One | - | - | - | ✔ | - | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | 4 | |
| Two | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | M | ✔ | ✔ | 7 | |
| Three | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | ✔ | 8 | |
| Four | - | M | M | - | - | - | M | M | ||
| Total | 19 | |||||||||
| ✔ = Appeared | M = Mentioned | |||||||||
| - = Did not appear | P = Pictured | |||||||||
Memorable Quotes[]
| “ | Fuck the fear. | ” |
| — Jakob to Jean[src] |
| “ | Now I'll fix your sink. | ” |
| — Jakob to Jean after they hooked-up[src] |
| “ | Jean. You have to stop breaking things when you want sex. | ” |
| — Jakob to Jean[src] |
| “ | Smoothie? | ” |
| — Jakob's catchphrase[src] |
| “ | Yeah...You are a bit of an arsehole. But you're also a good man, Otis. | ” |
| — Jakob to Otis[src] |
| “ | People deserve your whole heart, Otis. If you can't give them that, it's better they know. It's the kinder thing to do. | ” |
| — Jakob to Otis[src] |
| “ | And we all have horrible thoughts sometimes. Doesn't mean bad things will happen. | ” |
| — Jakob to Ola[src] |
| “ | You remind me of joy. Only joy. | ” |
| — Jakob to Ola[src] |
Trivia[]
- According to Jean, he had a vasectomy.[3]
- His number is 07700 965372.
- Jakob has lots of tattoos all over his body, especially on his chest.
- Jakob doesn't vote.
- Jakob doesn't appear in Season 4, as when he found out that he wasn't the biological father of Joy, he left Jean and alongside his daughter Ola, moved out of the Milburn house and moved back into their house.
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